Have I fallen in love? Is this love real? Maybe I like this person?I don’t know my own feelings… Everyone has had these worries about love at least once. If s/he is already married or is a type completely opposite to yours, you may feel crazy and don’t want to admit to your feelings. But aren’t there times when you realised “l(fā)ove” through your unconscious attitude towards someone or something that he said that keeps running in your head?
我是不是墜入了愛河？這就是所謂的愛情嗎？我是不是喜歡上了這個(gè)人？真搞不懂我這是怎么了……遇到愛情，每個(gè)人都經(jīng)歷過(guò)這樣的糾結(jié)。要是碰上對(duì)方已經(jīng)結(jié)婚，或完全不是預(yù)想的類型，你會(huì)覺得自己肯定瘋了，無(wú)論如何也不愿承認(rèn)自己有這種感情。可你潛意識(shí)里還是會(huì)隱隱察覺到對(duì)某人的“愛意”，或在腦子里不自覺地回想他說(shuō)過(guò)的話吧？
Is this LOVE? Or is it just another LIKE?
這是愛情嗎？抑或只是喜歡？
You can diagnose your “l(fā)ove” in this test, just count the number of items that ring true to you。
通過(guò)下面這個(gè)測(cè)試來(lái)診斷你的“愛情”吧，看看你符合多少選項(xiàng)。
1.I want to say unnecessary things to him/her。
我總想跟他/她嘮叨瑣碎的事情。
You know it’s unnecessary…but you want to meddle!
雖然知道都是些雞毛蒜皮的事情，可你就是忍不住要跟他/她說(shuō)！
2. I want to talk about myself in front of him/her。
在他/她面前，我總想談?wù)撟约骸?/span>
Were there times when you noticed that you kept talking about yourself?
有沒有發(fā)現(xiàn)，有時(shí)你一直在滔滔不絕談?wù)撟约海?/span>
3. To be honest, I want to have sex。
說(shuō)實(shí)話，我想要他/她。
No explanation is necessary. It’s a human nature。
無(wú)須解釋了——性乃人之本性嘛。
4. I want to do snowboarding (or other sports) with him/her。
我想和他/她一起滑雪(或做其他運(yùn)動(dòng))。
You want to release your overflowing passion。
你想釋放洶涌澎湃的激情。
5. I want to seduce him/her or want to be seduced by him/he。
我想和他/她調(diào)情。
You probably are imagining what’s next already. (laughs)
或許你都能想象到調(diào)情后干什么了。(竊笑)
6. I have similar taste in food and music to him/her。
我和他/她都喜歡相同的食物和音樂(lè)。
Yes, people say this is important for marriage。
沒錯(cuò)，人們都說(shuō)這對(duì)婚姻至關(guān)重要。
7. He/She seems very accepting。
他/她看上去非常包容。
You want him/her to accept you as who you are。
你希望他/她能接受你本真的模樣。
8. I want to be protected or want to protect him/her。
我渴望被對(duì)方呵護(hù)，或想要呵護(hù)對(duì)方。
Well, people must support each other…
好吧，人總得相互關(guān)懷照顧……
9. I feel that I can trust him/her。
我覺得我可以信任他/她。
As long as this isn’t a biased presumption, OK!
只要這不是你一廂情愿的推測(cè)，那就沒問(wèn)題！
10. I want to be touched, or touch him/her。
我渴望被撫摸，或撫摸對(duì)方。
If you like someone, you long to be near them。
如果你喜歡上了誰(shuí)，那必定渴望跟他們更親密。
11. I want to make him/her laugh。
我總想逗他/她發(fā)笑。
It’s also very important to share enjoyable moments。
分享開心時(shí)光也很重要。
12. I don’t know why, but I want to know。
我不明白為什么會(huì)這樣，但很想弄清楚。
The reason for being interested…
所以才會(huì)迷上對(duì)方吧……
13. When I’m with him/her, my attitude becomes hot and cold。
只要跟他/她在一起，我的情緒就會(huì)變得忽冷忽熱。
You can’t be honest because of “l(fā)ove”！ Totally understand your feeling!
這就是因?yàn)椤皭矍椤焙?！完全理解你的感受?/span>
14. I want to tease him/her。
我總想戲弄他/她。
Do you pick on him/her because you want him/her to look at you?
你是不是只因希望他/她看你一眼而故意招惹他/她？
15. I feel that he/she is awfully attractive。
我覺得他/她太有魅力了。
Even if they aren’t handsome, there are many attractive men out there。
就算他長(zhǎng)相不算英俊，你還是覺得他很有魅力。
16. I’m tempted to pet him/her。
我忍不住想寵愛他/她。
Do you think he/she is as cute as a pet?
你是不是覺得他/她像寵物一樣可愛？
17. He/She has already told me his problems and complaints。
他/她已經(jīng)向我傾訴了問(wèn)題和苦惱。
One can only show their weaknesses to someone he/she trusts。
人們只會(huì)在自己信任的人面前表現(xiàn)自己脆弱的一面。
18. I want to sympathise with him/her even if it is a bad story。
即使是個(gè)壞故事，我還是忍不住同情他/她。
To show one’s weakness is to open one’s heart。
展現(xiàn)自己的脆弱，即意味著打開自己的心扉。
19. I want to heal his/her pain。
我想治愈他/她的傷痛。
You would be a great mother or father!
那你將是一位了不起的母親或父親！
20. I feel that I am necessary to him/her。
我覺得自己是他/她不可或缺的人。
…it’s possible that you’re the one needing him/her.……
很可能他/她也是你不可或缺的人。
Time to sort your “l(fā)ove”！ Let’s see, how many items are true to you!
現(xiàn)在看看你的“愛情”診斷結(jié)果，你符合多少項(xiàng)呢？
